Happiness is your nature. It is not wrong to desire it. What is wrong is seeking it outside when it is inside.” —Sri Ramana Maharshi


What if I told you making the decision to love yourself can increase your wellness, relationships and abundance?

Do you often find your self-care is on point in one area of life while it lacks in other areas? How would it feel to know that letting go of stress and discomfort not only nurtures your physical body, but your mind and spirit? There’s nothing impossible or rhetorical about what I’ve asked. Yet, many people would rather hold on to regrets, anger and disappoint, which ultimately manifests into dis-ease (the body not at ease). You deserve and can achieve peace of mind, and I’ll guide you there.

Let me be clear, I am NOT a guru, nor do I aspire to be. I am, however, a trauma survivor who spend 15 years stuck in the funk of my life. Reliving old cycles (that were passed down to me) and beating myself up about it.

How did I recover? First, I had to get tired. Second, I found a self-care plan that worked and stuck to it and made a conscious decision to live my life out loud . My goal is to offer you the opportunity  to let go of the things that have been keeping you stuck so you can start enjoying life. My mission is to help you find a system to help you get there.

On this site, you will find a plethora of information and tools you can use to begin your self-care journey. I am also available to chat if you need additional support. Self-care is a powerful tool. There’s nothing more important than taking care of yourself. You deserve happiness. My goal is to show you what loving yourself looks and feels like.  Live Out Loud! You deserve it!


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“To Love Oneself is the Beginning of a Lifelong Romance” -Oscar Wilde

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